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Deep Dating: The New Rules For Creating Intimacy

Deep Dating:
The New Rules For Creating Intimacy

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Deep Dating:
The New Rules For Creating Intimacy

You think you know why you date, but you’re wrong.

You think you’re on the hunt for a suitable partner. You’ve been programmed to believe the person in front of you is a kind of checklist. Snappy dating profile –...

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Steve BearmanJun 20 Dating, Relationships Comments Disabled
Thwarting Loneliness on the Path to Transformation

Thwarting Loneliness on the Path to Transformation

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Thwarting Loneliness on the Path to Transformation

Walking the path to transformation can be a lonely journey. When you set out on your own, and part ways with the pack, it is always, in some ways, a solitary undertaking.

Yet even while you’re finding your own way, you’re surrounded...

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Steve BearmanSep 11 Growth and Development, Relationships Comments Disabled
Your Partner Is Not Who You Think They Are

Your Partner Is Not
Who You Think They Are

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Your Partner Is Not
Who You Think They Are

You want one thing. Your partner wants another. Do you need to compromise, so neither of you really gets what you want? Does one person need to sacrifice, perhaps at the cost of resenting the other? Is there any way for both of you to win?

You’re...

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Steve BearmanJun 23 Conscious Communication, Relationships Comments Disabled

The Intimacy Equation

If you want a fulfilling life, you need fulfilling relationships. But what makes a relationship fulfilling? In a word, intimacy. Intimacy is the experience of feeling genuinely connected instead of separate, sensing that you and someone else are a...

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Steve BearmanFeb 02 Conscious Communication, Relationships Comments Disabled
The Other Safe Sex Conversation

The Other Safe Sex Conversation

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The Other Safe Sex Conversation

How do you decide if you want to have sex with someone? Presumably you would choose someone you’re attracted to in some compelling way. Mutual interest on their part also seems to be a key ingredient. Once you’ve got those basics established,...

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Steve BearmanFeb 04 Conscious Communication, Relationships, Sexuality Comments Disabled
How To Make Friends With Anyone

How To Make Friends With Anyone

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How To Make Friends With Anyone

Just because you have friends, doesn’t mean you know how to make friends. There is an art to making friends, and not everyone learns it. Fortunately, even if you never learn the art, you can wind up with friends anyway. There are some disadvantages,...

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Steve BearmanJan 22 Conscious Communication, Conscious Practices, How To, Relationships, Unconditional Love Comments Disabled
Getting Good at Getting Rejected

Getting Good at Getting Rejected

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Getting Good at Getting Rejected

Here’s what’s great about getting rejected! Many of life’s most desirable experiences and meaningful relationships come from asking for what you want. If you’re too afraid of getting rejected, you won’t ask for what you...

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How to Flirt (with everything)

How to Flirt (with everything)

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How to Flirt (with everything)

I’ve seen you. You always want to connect with people, but you’re not always sure how to do it. Sometimes it just happens. You find that, somehow, one of you has invited the other to play. Without being serious, without anyone trying too...

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Why Men Are So Obsessed With Sex

Why Men Are So Obsessed With Sex

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Why Men Are So Obsessed With Sex

(Originally published in K. Kay, J. Nagle & B. Gould (Eds.) Male lust: Pleasure, power, and transformation (pp. 215-222). New York: Harrington Park Press, 2000.)

Have you ever encountered a baby whose gender is unknown to you? Not knowing can...

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Steve BearmanFeb 13 Deconditioning, Relationships, Sexuality Comments Disabled
6 Steps to Completing Relationships

6 Steps to Completing Relationships

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6 Steps to Completing Relationships

Relationships have a natural life cycle: a beginning, a middle, and an end. Along the way, they pass through a series of stages. Some relationships make it to the next stage; some don’t. If they last long enough, someone eventually leaves the...

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