Long before a couple comes to a counselor seeking support, they come to one another seeking support. Without always realizing it, one of the reasons we enter into romantic partnerships in the first place, is to create relationships where we can heal our pasts. Our unconscious, intuitive attempts to heal our pasts lead us into the biggest conflicts in our partnerships.
As a couples counselor, the most powerful thing you can do for the couples you work with is to teach them to be allies for one another. When people in couples become aware that they’re trying to get help from one another in healing, conflicts can be transformed into healing opportunities. Couples counseling alone is not enough to make this happen, as couples spend far more time with each other than they do with a counselor. That’s why you want to teach them to be each other’s allies even when you’re not around.
This coming Saturday, come spend the day with me learning about and practicing many more ways to make couples into allies at our daylong workshop: Couples Counseling 101!
Saturday, May 2nd, and Sunday, May 3rd, 2015
10:00am - 6:00pm
Want to be free of jealousy forever? Join us for this popular, always-sold-out workshop, which is now being offered for the first time ever as a full weekend intensive.
Over the course of one weekend you'll:
- Discover the secret ingredient at the heart of jealousy that, once you notice it's there, can instantly turn your experience around.
- Deconstruct the unconscious assumptions and systems of meaning that keep jealousy in place. We'll unpack the nature of insecurity, thwart the belief in relational scarcity, break down the motivations behind codependency, and overcome the emotional pull of the victim role.
- Learn to work with the raw somatic and emotional experiences underlying jealousy. We'll practice techniques for letting our bodies guide us through challenging moments, and for helping stuck feelings to flow on through.
- Develop new practices that replace jealousy with far more desirable ways of being. Learn how to move from insecurity to self-acceptance, how to create an abundance of intimacy in your life, how to sense your connection to others even when they're not there, how to deeply enjoy being alone, and how to stop battling against the nature of reality.